Female ejaculation: What is it, is it real, and are there any benefits
Scientific/statistical answer – For women who can squirt, the median frequency of squirting during sexual activity was 57% (SD +/- 33%) [16]. “We hypothesize that female ejaculation has a unique function in producing a secretion into the urethra that provides protection from urinary tract infections (UTIs). We further predict that female ejaculate contains antimicrobial compounds including elements such as zinc” [19].
If you’re masturbating in the bathtub and then cleaning your sex toys after, you’re already casting like three spells at once. We’ve focused a lot on women and female bodies how to squirt, but gender and sexuality aren’t the determining factors. Anyone with a vulva can do it, including trans and non-binary people. For those identifying as men who don’t know what it feels like to ejaculate, the urethral gush that happens when you squirt can be an empowering, gender-affirming experience. Female squirting, also known as female ejaculation or squirting orgasm, refers to the release of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. It is a topic that has sparked curiosity and interest among many people.
After one orgasm, it’s common for these areas to become hypersensitive—shift your focus to other erogenous zones like her A-spot, nipples, or inner thighs. Taking breaks between rounds and varying your techniques can prevent overstimulation while keeping her arousal high. Look for signs like deepened breathing, flushed skin, or how her pelvic muscles respond. Women don’t always need a refractory period, unlike most men.
Now it’s time to combine forces to double her pleasure. With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques I described above for rubbing her clit while using your other hand to penetrate her and massage her G Spot. You’ll be stimulating her clitoris from the inside and outside. While stimulating the G-spot area may help her to squirt, there are no guarantees.
Don’t worry; it’s unlikely to be urine, especially if you’ve emptied your bladder beforehand. It’s wet, free, and always available, but saliva dries quickly and it’s not very slippery. Vegetable oil is another possibility, but it can be messy and stain linens. If they dry out, they can be refreshed with a few drops of water, or just apply a bit more. But don’t squirt lubricants directly on women’s genitals.
The “Crab” sex position is a variation of the cowgirl position, where the receiving partner is on top, facing either away or towards the penetrating partner. The receiving partner leans back, supporting themselves with their hands behind them and their feet flat on the surface, resembling a “crab” shape. This position allows the receiving partner to control the depth and pace of penetration using their legs and arms. The area around the vaginal opening is often quite sensitive. Gently place your well-lubricated thumb or index finger at the entrance of her vagina. Slowly and softly, make a gentle dipping motion up and down, just at the entrance, to help her warm up and become comfortable.